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My life in sex: ‘While my husband was away on a business trip, I discovered casual sex’

By: gifted |Time : August 03, 2018, 10:14:59 PM
The 54-year-old unfaithful wife

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On the outside, I am a happily married, respectable, middle-aged woman. My husband is great – generous, good company, a wonderful father and grandfather. We have an enjoyable, comfortable life. He’s 12 years older than me, but that was never a problem, and although sex was routine, I was faithful for almost 30 years.

Then, three years ago, something changed. After a couple of operations, he fell into a long bout of severe depression, which resulted in a complete absence of physical affection. I became frustrated and desperate, and started fantasising about sex with other men. My husband travels a lot, and while he was away on a long business trip abroad, I discovered casual sex.

It was a revelation. I was amazed how easy it is for a woman to find lovers, and how many do. On the website I used, women outnumbered men hugely. While many of the men who look for sex in this way seem vulgar and semi-literate, there are a small minority who are lovely.

I’ve met 10 in the last couple of years, and now see three of them on a fairly regular basis: one is a doctor, one a company director and the other a TV journalist.

I have amazing, adventurous sex with each of them, and they have also become friends. We all have a lot to lose, so are respectful and very discreet. My job means I travel and don’t work set hours, so this secret isn’t difficult to hide.

It’s all about mutual satisfaction and fun. I’m enjoying the kind of sex I always dreamed of. I just hope that no one ever finds out.

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Re: My life in sex: ‘While my husband was away on a business trip, I discovered casual sex’

By: dayan (M) |Time : August 04, 2018, 04:15:45 AM
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I have amazing, adventurous sex with each of them, and they have also become friends. We all have a lot to lose, so are respectful and very discreet. My job means I travel and don’t work set hours, so this secret isn’t difficult to hide.

It’s all about mutual satisfaction and fun. I’m enjoying the kind of sex I always dreamed of. I just hope that no one ever finds out.[
Let me get this straight...
You are 54 years and started this lifestyle at 51 years after staying faithful "for almost 30 years"?
Maybe there is something I don't understand about a woman's sexuality, but 51 years seems a little too late to start experimenting with a sexual lifestyle, unless you've always wanted (or done this secretly) this lifestyle.
It would be fair to let your husband know so that he can at least protect himself anyway he wants to.
Keeping it secret indicates that you think that this is wrong.
Secret lifestyles tend to hurt in the end.

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