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My life in sex: the widow disappointed by online dating

By: dayan (M) |Time : August 18, 2019, 01:37:27 AM
With little exception, I’ve found a balding, arthritic, corpulent army – ageing versions of the boys I knew as a teenager

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When I was a teenager in the 1950s, sex wasn’t talked about freely, except when we girls were warned sternly of the dangers of pre-marital sex, the horrors of unwanted pregnancy and the stigma of appearing “easy”. Nonetheless, we frequently fell madly in love with boys from an associate grammar school. Romance was always in the air – holding hands, chaste kisses, little love notes.

The love of my life was Kevin, a hockey champion with gentle brown eyes and the wholesome smell of coal tar soap. He said he loved me, then suddenly stunned me by saying we should go “all the way”. This was more of a demand than a request and I refused. So I was dumped in favour of Brenda, who reputedly risked going “all the way” with anyone.

Disillusion and heartache took a while to shake off. Time passed and marriage encompassed shared values, dreams, love and respect, resulting in a fun and fulfilling sex life. Sadly, my husband died and loneliness led me to seek male companionship online.

With little exception, what emerged was a balding, arthritic, corpulent army of ageing “Kevins”. The need and demand for “intimacy” was prioritised over basic pleasantries. There was indignation at my failure to acquiesce immediately, overt scorn at the suggestion of first building a little rapport. Swift, unapologetic exits. Admittedly, no heartache my end, but sadness that “Kevin” hadn’t matured and has remained an entitled teen. Never mind, I’m sure Brenda is still around.


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Re: My life in sex: the widow disappointed by online dating

By: dayan (M) |Time : August 18, 2019, 01:50:40 AM
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Sadly, my husband died and loneliness led me to seek male companionship online.

With little exception, what emerged was a balding, arthritic, corpulent army of ageing “Kevins”. The need and demand for “intimacy” was prioritised over basic pleasantries. There was indignation at my failure to acquiesce immediately, overt scorn at the suggestion of first building a little rapport. Swift, unapologetic exits. Admittedly, no heartache my end, but sadness that “Kevin” hadn’t matured and has remained an entitled teen. Never mind, I’m sure Brenda is still around
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hehehe!
This is so funny...
The story is so real and the woman is very real, too!
She is a reserved graceful old lady who still has fond memories of the past when women were "courted", and "dated".
What she however found out was that the "I want it now" culture has since overwhelmed that old culture.
Her sadness that the "teenage boys" have not changed one bit is made worse by her realization that there are perhaps more "Brendas" (women willing to have sex without courtship) around these days.
It is good that she knows what she wants, and she should stick to it. Nothing to be sad about there.
Unless she wants to change ... which is entirely her personal prerogative.
I hope she realizes that times are changing though...
Once she knows that, there is no problem, because she would learn to have a reasonable expectation of the time.

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