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My boyfriend is wonderful and loving – but he has a tiny penis

By: gifted |Time : May 06, 2017, 08:01:31 PM
We have penetrative sex, but it is so small that I feel nothing and I fear that, if he’s to be my life partner, I may never again enjoy sex in quite the same way


True intimacy is partly defined by the ability of each person to see and accept the ‘failings’ of the other. Photograph: Guardian Design Team

After a series of unsuitable boyfriends, I have met a wonderful loving man. However, he has an extremely small penis. He can get an erection and we are able to have penetrative sex, but I often feel little to nothing, although he is a sensitive lover in other ways. I am full of regret that, if this is to be my life partner, I might never be able to enjoy penetrative sex in quite the same way again.




Regarding relationships, what exactly is your goal? Is it to find the perfect person, or the perfect penis? Would you accept my word for the fact that neither exists? Your search for complete and utter satisfaction on every scale is likely to lead to disappointment, dissatisfaction and regret. True intimacy and wonderfully loving human connections are partly defined by the ability of each person to see and accept the “failings” of the other, and to accept and share one’s own shortcomings. You are at an early stage in this new relationship, but rejecting an otherwise “wonderful” man on the basis of his penis size may be very unwise, especially since he is a fulfilling lover in nonpenetrative ways. Most nerve endings that help trigger pleasure and orgasm are in a woman’s clitoris, not the vagina. And over time, needs and bodies change, and desire waxes and wanes. When judging a partner’s ability to be satisfying in the long run, the only reliable benchmark is his willingness to learn to please you.

• Pamela Stephenson Connolly is a psychotherapist who specialises in treating sexual disorders

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Re: My boyfriend is wonderful and loving – but he has a tiny penis

By: gifted |Time : May 06, 2017, 08:02:20 PM
This so-called psychotherapist doesn't know what she is talking about. That much I can say.

Re: My boyfriend is wonderful and loving – but he has a tiny penis

By: dayan (M) |Time : May 06, 2017, 08:13:01 PM
This so-called psychotherapist doesn't know what she is talking about. That much I can say.

Hahaha you have a point there.
She made some strong points though, but the issue is far stronger than the point she made!
In things like this, honesty is very critical.
Let everybody involved be honest about it and not pretend that all is well, and that this doesn't matter.
It is matters like mad, and the consequences impact whole society.

Re: My boyfriend is wonderful and loving – but he has a tiny penis

By: Adenosine (M) |Time : May 06, 2017, 08:35:09 PM
She is looking for full package, am very sure those that dissapointed her have strong and long penis buh at the end of the day what was the outcome. She is not sure of what she is looking for, either a penis that can penetrate block or a happy relationship.

Re: My boyfriend is wonderful and loving – but he has a tiny penis

By: Gideon |Time : May 07, 2017, 02:45:27 PM
She is looking for full package, am very sure those that dissapointed her have strong and long penis buh at the end of the day what was the outcome. She is not sure of what she is looking for, either a penis that can penetrate block or a happy relationship.
You have spoken my mind... She was with men with bigger penis but seems unsatisfied with the relationship,now she is with a guy who seems ok to her but penis is small... She needs to define the relationship. Does she strictly want sexual relationship or something deeper than that?... If it is something deeper than that,then there are more ways of satisfying a woman than sexual intercourse.

Re: Re: My boyfriend is wonderful and loving – but he has a tiny penis

By: Ramjoe (M) |Time : May 08, 2017, 03:52:25 AM

This so-called psychotherapist doesn't know what she is talking about. That much I can say.


Hahaha you have a point there.
She made some strong points though, but the issue is far stronger than the point she made!
In things like this, honesty is very critical.
Let everybody involved be honest about it and not pretend that all is well, and that this doesn't matter.
It is matters like mad, and the consequences impact whole society.
A lady once told me that the "efficient use" of penis is more important than its size as the places that bring about orgasm in females are not deep inside... Reaching deep down is a bonus, she said... Touching the right places with even a small "mic" should do. Just may be her case is different.

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