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Having sex makes him cry: What is Really Happening?

By: dayan (M) |Time : February 26, 2020, 05:47:42 PM
Dear Bunmi,

My boyfriend is the same age as I am (26) and I’m worried about him. Our sex life is great. But once it’s over, he suddenly changes.

He becomes really depressed. He’s even cried a couple of times and then leaves a sad man.

I’m used to men turning over and going to sleep after sex, but his behaviour is weird, to say the least. Do you think he has hormonal problems?

Linda, by e-mail.

Dear Linda,

Orgasms often produce immediate after-effects in both men and women. Hormones are partly to blame, although emotions, including love as well as fears about sex, are important too.

Most people feel relaxed and you’re not alone in finding men rolling over and dozing off after sex a bit puzzling. But your boyfriend’s reaction is extreme and it sounds as if sex makes him feel guilty and anxious.

The problem might improve, as he becomes more confident with you. If not, then encourage him to have a word with his doctor unfailingly.

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Re: Having sex makes him cry: What is Really Happening?

By: dayan (M) |Time : February 26, 2020, 06:12:53 PM
This is one of those cases that support my theory that sexual repression is causing deviance in our society, and the symptoms will manifest in more sinister places if nothing is done to correct it.

Sex is a NATURAL thing, and the sooner people understand this, the better for them.
However, one must be first matured emotionally and psychologically before engaging in sex.

Immaturity, or ignorance, or mental enslavement caused by misinformation can lead to what this man in this story is going through.

I'm NOT saying that ALL sex is good. NOPE.
There are BAD sex which can violate nature's/God's laws.
People should cease and desist from such "bad sex", because it can lead to SERIOUS consequences.

When people are not ready to face those serious consequences, it creates new problems.

I believe that left entirely to their own wishes/devices, a lot of people would NEVER even have sex, at all, because there are too many moving parts to the act.

People like to be fully in control of outcomes that may impact their lives.

Sex is one of those acts whose outcomes can never be fully predicted, and it doesn't matter whether the sex is legitimate or illegitimate.

So, a lot of people demure at the act automatically, but may fall eventually because they still have sexual organs controlled by hormones.

People still engage in it because they are naturally programmed (or predisposed) to the act.

Methinks that he needs to stop having sex for now until he matures enough to decide how to handle it.


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