Being happily married does not mean you’ll be happy all the time. On any given day, week, month, or year you will, in fact, not be happy—nor will you have warm fuzzies for your husband. Sometimes your marriage will suck. So go with it; let it suck. Don’t assume that whatever’s happening means you married the wrong man or that your marriage is doomed. Don’t assume that because things aren’t working out the way you want them to at that particular moment in time that you need a different life.