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When you love men too much, they misbehave –Joy Tambou, actress

By: dayan (M) |Time : March 15, 2019, 06:44:21 PM
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Joy Tambou


Fast rising actress and filmmaker, Joy Tambou, who already has two films, Diary of a Corper and Tattered under her belt, is one of the new talents to watch out for in Nollywood.

TS Weekend caught up with her recently and she opened up on her works and ideal man. Hear her: “The first is a short movie entitled, Diary of A Corper, which is on Youtube. The new one I just finished and launched in Warri, Delta State is entitled, Tattered. It is about a crazy girl from a rich background who doesn’t like the poor. She is so crazy that she molests people and goes around to embarrass the poor. At the end of the day, she falls in love with her father’s mechanic. I played the role of the girl. I was acting and producing as well.”

On her kind of man, Tambou has this to say: “I don’t need a perfect man. I want somebody I will build with. Don’t come pretending to be a lover boy and at the end of the day, you are not what you seem to be. It is painful and it really hurts when you love someone and just when you think that person is cool, he changes and brings out the other side.

“I am not looking for a billionaire; I believe in working together. Just come to me as you, not as someone else. Don’t bring somebody else’s car or something to show off if you want to be with me. Let me see your real person. I am me, I don’t pretend; I am just too real to fake my life.”

She continues: “I like intelligent guys. I like a guy that has something in his brains. I don’t believe in ‘this fine man’ thing everywhere. All you need to do is just have something upstairs so we can rhyme and learn from each other. Speak well, freshen up and look good. Don’t come with smelly mouth and body odour, it irritates me.”

Does she have any plan to tie the knot soon? “When the right man comes, we will do that,” the actress says, adding, “I have loved before and it didn’t work out; when you love men too much, most times they misbehave. I have been hurt twice. Right now, I am not in love with anybody.”

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Re: When you love men too much, they misbehave –Joy Tambou, actress

By: dayan (M) |Time : March 15, 2019, 07:09:17 PM
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Does she have any plan to tie the knot soon? “When the right man comes, we will do that,” the actress says, adding, “I have loved before and it didn’t work out; when you love men too much, most times they misbehave. I have been hurt twice. Right now, I am not in love with anybody.”

Well sha!  ;D ;D

I don't really think (or believe) that there is something like loving someone "too much".
When someone says something like this, it usually indicates to me that the person's life is somewhat out of balance.
A balanced life is like a pyramid; NOTHING can uproot or destabilize it.
What do I mean by this?
I'll talk from a little life experience...

I once loved this girl "too much" meaning that I actually sacrificed a lot for her.
But, I NEVER neglected myself throughout, lai lai!  :))

There came a time when she started to feel that I couldn't live without her, but guess what? I could, of course! Because I had a life outside of her! Duh!  ::)

She didn't know (or didn't understand the real picture), and proceeded to do what most would do in such circumstance of misunderstanding.

Well, suffice to say that while she was busy taking advantage of the "freedom" or "upper hand", her friends were busy angling to take over her spot. She was lucky to look back soon enough, and to reflect, otherwise she was going to leave, and one of her friends would have taken over a very juicy spot!  ;D ;D ;D  8)
Human beings smell good stuff from miles away!  ;D
Well, it would not have turned out that way if I had neglected myself (or self development).

So, the moral of this little anecdote is that instead of worrying about your love for the other being too much, worry that your neglect of yourself is getting too much, because once you lose value as a person, NOBODY would want to be with you. QED.  8)

Re: When you love men too much, they misbehave –Joy Tambou, actress

By: alagbe003 (M) |Time : March 16, 2019, 01:38:27 PM
She sounds arrogant, typical of actress.

Re: When you love men too much, they misbehave –Joy Tambou, actress

By: Ramjoe (M) |Time : March 17, 2019, 10:24:24 PM
She sounds arrogant, typical of actress.

Hehehehe... Alagbe, calm down now...

Arrogant? Really? I don't think so. IMO, she's being plain - blunt. If you ask me that's a lady who knows what she wants. Only she needs a touch or two on a part of her mentality. Men are funny, she shouldn't be giving this much away.

Here's my two kobo - Never love too much. It's choking, it affects the other person. It's as if you're fusing your whole life into theirs - they feel burdened, somehow violated. When it's too much, when your  mumu gets out of hand; people notice especially this other person and it usually ends badly for you. As that lover of yours might start taking you for granted knowing fully well that they've got a handle on you or they just leave you (that your own too much).

Have a life - it's only then you can love properly.

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