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What to do when your partner gets overly jealous all the time

By: Gideon |Time : October 23, 2018, 03:45:26 AM
Jealousy in a relationship is that uncomfortable feeling you get when a partner gets too close to people of the opposite sex. It’s actually OK to feel that way. In a way, it shows that you care and that you don’t meant to share. This kind of jealousy cannot be condemned in any way.
On the other hand, there is an excessive type of jealousy which is both irrational, childish, toxic and just so unreasonable. When a partner tries to limit all forms of communication with members of the oppposite sex, when they feel threatened by your association by other men or women, no matter how harmless the relationship is, that is an unhealthy relationship behaviour.
If you have a partner who is like this, here are ways to deal with that:

1. Be honest
If you are honest with your partner about your friendships, connections, business affiliations and partners, you reduce their chances of distrusting you.

2. Priorities
Never make your partner feel like they are in a contest with some other woman or man. Let them know, every time, every day and everywhere that they are number one and that no one comes close in importance.

3. Always introduce
Run into a friend or colleague? Manners require that you introduce them to your partner and do not leave your partner at a corner to go chat in private with them for too long.

4. Reassurances
Some people have been heartbroken over and over again, causing them to be paranoid and extremely guarded. If your partner’s jealousy owes to this paranoia, try to always reassure them of your undying love. Tell him or her that they’ve got you and that you won’t do to them what the previous partner did.
More important, though, ensure that you mean what you say.

5. Let them know that their behaviour is unacceptable
If your partner is one who gets unduly jealous even at the simplest relations with other people, they may be doing so because they think it is a normal behaviour. You need to tell them that this not how normal partners do.
Normal partners allow their partners talk to other people and even relate with them within the limit of reason and good judgement.
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Re: What to do when your partner gets overly jealous all the time

By: Gideon |Time : October 23, 2018, 03:49:25 AM
Jealousy can be healthy but at the same time can be disastrous if it is excessive... It is best to come clean at all times and be open whenever dealings with the opposite sex come up.

Re: What to do when your partner gets overly jealous all the time

By: Ramjoe (M) |Time : October 24, 2018, 05:35:35 AM
Jealousy can be healthy but at the same time can be disastrous if it is excessive... It is best to come clean at all times and be open whenever dealings with the opposite sex come up.


Can jealousy ever be healthy?

Re: What to do when your partner gets overly jealous all the time

By: Miror |Time : December 04, 2018, 10:37:03 PM


Can jealousy ever be healthy?
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Of course, it's normal to feel jealous. It shows one really likes the partner which is a healthy sign.
It being excessive is when caution comes in and ain't healthy.



Re: What to do when your partner gets overly jealous all the time

By: dayan (M) |Time : December 08, 2018, 07:35:49 AM

Can jealousy ever be healthy?

It is human nature to be jealous sometimes, but I suspect that it is also human nature to be covetous of others property. My point is that jealousy should be considered a negative trait because it can lead to many negative outcomes. I can't recall what positive things that can come out of jealousy. Humans have been "evolving" or getting more socially sophisticated with the passing of time.
Once a person focuses more on the love for others, the jealousy thing starts to lose its sting. 
It is even very empowering to conquer jealousy.


Re: What to do when your partner gets overly jealous all the time

By: Ramjoe (M) |Time : December 09, 2018, 08:25:11 PM
It is human nature to be jealous sometimes,

 it can lead to many negative outcomes. I can't recall what positive things that can come out of jealousy.


Once a person focuses more on the love for others, the jealousy thing starts to lose its sting. 
It is even very empowering to conquer jealousy.

Hehehehe... It cannot be healthy... Just like Yorubas say "there's no good child/offspring in a gun"


Admiration is one thing, jealousy is another and let's face it, it breeds hatred, enmity... Just bad!

Re: What to do when your partner gets overly jealous all the time

By: dayan (M) |Time : December 22, 2018, 11:33:41 PM
Hehehehe... It cannot be healthy... Just like Yorubas say "there's no good child/offspring in a gun"


Admiration is one thing, jealousy is another and let's face it, it breeds hatred, enmity... Just bad!

I also tend to think that jealousy is at least "limiting" to the experiences of human beings on this earth.
Once a person conquers jealousy, he or she is able to gain immense power and self control.
It is not easy, but it is possible.
Jealousy often shows that the jealous person is lacking something.
It implies an acceptance that another person is better than self.
A human being should strive to convince himself or herself that he or she is the best that God created in that type of body.
That he or she is unique and perfect. Once a person starts to think this way, it is almost impossible to be jealous.

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