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Pregnant for my violent lover

By: dayan (M) |Time : June 13, 2019, 05:05:41 AM
Dear Bunmi,

My boyfriend of four years is so possessive and jealous that I sometimes fear for my life. He thinks I’m having an affair if I just pop out to the market or if I stop to talk to a man—any man. I’ve left a few times only for us to make up again.

Now I’ve just found out I’m expecting a child for him and he’s ecstatic. Only, he’s got even more of a hold on me now. He watches me like a hawk and could be verbally abusive.

He doesn’t look like a man I want to spend the rest of my life with, but I don’t want an abortion. Please help.

Nike, by e-mail.







Dear Nike,

Do you want your baby to be brought up in an abusive environment? Be firm with your man that you’re not putting up with his jealous and possessive behaviour any longer and if he carries on, walk out or enlist the help of people who can talk to him.

The problem with excessively jealous people is that they can’t change. Even when they’re with the ugliest partners, they still accuse them of two-timing. Life is too short to spend your life dodging the blows of a partner with a problem. ‘Think before you leap’ should be your watchword here.

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Re: Pregnant for my violent lover

By: dayan (M) |Time : June 13, 2019, 05:18:07 AM
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He watches me like a hawk and could be verbally abusive.

He doesn’t look like a man I want to spend the rest of my life with, but I don’t want an abortion. Please help
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Okay, I'll be simple and straight with my advice to this girl.

FLEE NOW!

Jealous men are the most deadly type of men to date.

I don't know why some people still fall for the "he loves me, so he is possessive".

It took me reading A LOT to know that jealousy is a form of possession. It exists when one party feels that he or she owns the other. 

Love is an entirely different thing, and the first test of love is CARE (Tender care if the love is going from a man to a woman, or from a woman to her child).

Women can also show men tender care, but they usually give men a different type of care, but I digress...

Morbidly jealous men NEVER change. It is a lifelong deformity.

Relationships where such men are involved usually end up in murder-suicides, and sometimes children are not spared.

Therefore FLEE THIS MAN NOW... or pay later.

Enuff said.

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