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Man And "Manhood" Enlargement

By naijarian (F)December 25, 2016, 05:22:48 AM
I was watching this movie and a scene triggered these series of thoughts in my head. Sexual life of partners matter a lot t regardless of how we want to 'moral-wrap' it. Even the humblest holiest wife would feel a kind of sadness when she isn't satisfied with d sex. There are many sex related issh in relationships and marriages, now, how do one deal with it.

For example, let me ask. As a woman/babe/Lady/girl, how Do you tell/encourage your guy to get his dICk enlarged? Especially if it is causing a sexual rift between you.

And guys, how would you react to such a suggestion from your partner?


Re: Man And Dick Enlargement

By dayan (M)December 25, 2016, 05:37:15 AM
Dis topic go cause earthquake, but na human problem, therefore we go deal with am.   8)


Re: Man And Dick Enlargement

By naijarian (F)December 25, 2016, 06:00:07 AM
Dis topic go cause earthquake, but na human problem, therefore we go deal with am.   8)
:D

Hehehe. Ansa!!!


Re: Man And Dick Enlargement

By dayan (M)December 26, 2016, 09:04:04 AM
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For example, let me ask. As a woman/babe/Lady/girl, how Do you tell/encourage your guy to get his dICk enlarged? Especially if it is causing a sexual rift between you

I almost dodged the question entirely (as other guys here seem to have done so far  :))   ) but the "sexual rift" is a problem that should be addressed.
I have three stages of answers which applies according to the whims and wishes of the couples involved:

(1) Option 1 (Assumes that the man will do it) : The man swallows his pride and undertakes the procedure if it can be proven to be effective.

(2) Option 2 (Assumes that the man will not do it) : The couple decides to find new techniques that should help them achieve their set goal without the man doing anything or giving up any grounds. This is not always successful, but depending on the strength of the relationship (social, religious, cultural, chemistry, and "couple psychology"), and the man's sexual skills outside of the use of his manhood - it can work.

(3) Option 3 (Assumes that both couple would rather not do it) : The couple adopts a creative style of relationship. I don't know how to elaborate on this one without being misunderstood. But I would say that a couple really has the prerogative of choices given their unique situation which is only known to them and God.
The philosophy here is driven by two schools of spiritual principle: The first is from Igbo proverb/mystic thought that says "If there is a unanimous agreement among kindred to sell an orphan into slavery, such act never gets frowned upon by the oracle." It is similar to what Jesus said about "what you bind on earth is bound in heaven and what you loose on earth is loosed in heaven."(Matt 18:18)
Both are proverbial expressions that should illustrate what I'm getting at here.
Sexual problems are the biggest and most significant problem in a marriage. Every other problem can be overcome without anyone getting hurt much. If this is not handled with maturity and smartness, a spouse can get very hurt to the extent of destroying the marriage. That is why agreement should precede any atypical solution.


As an aside, this question is part of why I NOW do not believe that people should marry without first knowing each other very very well. I used to believe that marriage can work between people who barely know each other, but not any more. To continue to believe that is to say that I have learned nothing in life.
Take it any way you want, but when people first get to know each other well before entering marriage they dodge a lot of social compatibility bullets. If they don't know each other first, this type of problem can show up, and such problem would task every fiber of their being to solve it.  A healthy chunk of the divorce statistics is caused by this type of problem.


Therefore I would recommend the surgery (option 1).


Re: Man And "Manhood" Enlargement

By Adenosine (M)December 26, 2016, 08:20:10 PM
When you're explaining about knowing each other before marriage, are you referring to sex before marriage? Because the main topic here is about sex between the two partners and knowing each other has to do with sex as well. Assuming you're referring to knowing each other in sex-wise, do you agree with sex before marriage...... Boss Dayan your opinion is needed


Re: Man And "Manhood" Enlargement

By Adenosine (M)December 26, 2016, 08:21:56 PM
The question na gbagan! Well from boss dayan options, I will follow option 1 as well.


Re: Man And Dick Enlargement

By Ramjoe (M)December 27, 2016, 12:58:20 AM
I almost dodged the question entirely (as other guys here seem to have done so far  :))   ) but the "sexual rift" is a problem that should be addressed.
I have three stages of answers which applies according to the whims and wishes of the couples involved:

(1) Option 1 (Assumes that the man will do it) : The man swallows his pride and undertakes the procedure if it can be proven to be effective.


Therefore I would recommend the surgery (option 1).

It will best if the husband just undergoes the procedure for the wife and for himself... If not, he will have himself to blame. As other issues (not even pertaining to sex) will be blown out of proportion by the wife in agony. And the husband will lead a miserable life from then onwards... No one would want that.


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By dayan (M)December 27, 2016, 01:41:31 PM
When you're explaining about knowing each other before marriage, are you referring to sex before marriage? Because the main topic here is about sex between the two partners and knowing each other has to do with sex as well. Assuming you're referring to knowing each other in sex-wise, do you agree with sex before marriage...... Boss Dayan your opinion is needed

Some things are so self evidently sensible that people just do it without need for seeking more information.
For example, in the olden days (Biblical days), the marriage age was not 18; it was way younger... perhaps even as young as 12 and 13. But as people developed, they figured that the marriage age should be moved further up to 18. Jacob served Laban his uncle for 14 years to marry two of his own cousins (Leah and Rachel). In my part of the world (Igbo land), that would constitute incest.
But today, even in some first world countries, a 16 year old girl can legally marry (with parental consent ), but if someone above 18 had sex with such a girl outside of marriage, it would become statutory rape! But once she marries, she can have sex.
Such is the system we have today -produced by years (thousand of years) of human beings experimenting with life.
God the maker designed us and included this little computer in our heads called BRAINS and expects us to use it exhaustively to solve problems (since we chose that path in the garden of Eden). But some of us still prefer that God comes down from heaven to spoon feed them.
I have seen enough instances where couples' sexual incompatibility led to problems waaayyy beyond the marriage -in fact the problem infested the rest of society, leading to serial adulteries, polluting neighborhoods and communities where these couples settled down.

Would I prefer that a couple walked into a lifelong commitment totally blind, and in the process create a lifelong serial violation of God's law, yoking others along as it goes? NO.

I would rather that a couple had premarital sex (though I would caveat it with an aim of getting married -God sees human hearts and intentions and judges by it only), than they not have it and then create a festering that pollutes societies for 30, 40, 50, 60 years straight.
They can practice safe sex -only have it when the woman would not get pregnant and in fact should not happen more than few times -just to test the engines.

Note that the current life we live on earth is a product of rebellion. Ever since Adam ate that fruit, we entered a path of rebellion, only redeemable by the saving grace in the blood of the lamb of God (to those who believe). 
So, as long as you have marriage intentions, and are seriously testing out the other gender for that purpose only, I would not fret.

Caveat Emptor: This view is purely personal and is probably wrong. But that is what I believe so far.


Re: Man And "Manhood" Enlargement

By Adenosine (M)December 27, 2016, 05:42:56 PM
I respect your opinion and I I really like the last statement that you made "Caveat Emptor: This view is purely personal and is probably wrong. But that is what I believe so far.". If we want to take it into christianity is a since to practice premarital sex, you said that they can practice some time just to test the engine and stop it. Yes, they might admit to test the engine but I bet is gonna be hard to stop it once you start because is like you tasted this thing and sweet, then you will order for more of the cookies. And we are talking about guy especially, he tested the engine doesn't mean he won't go and test the other engines, once the girl the deny him another testing. To me, the best thing is not to try it at all the risk is not on the guy, is majorly on the girl. I believe that for every problem on earth, God had created the solution already, is now left for us to think out of the box and stop being naive of a matter that is not strong enough to dissolve a family.


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By Ramjoe (M)December 27, 2016, 08:12:41 PM
God had created the solve already, is now left for us to think out of the box and stop being naive of a matter that is not strong enough to dissolve a family.


Well, don't eat the cookies in the cookie jar... This is the kind of thing you do not have to test (as a Christian that I am). Involve God from the onset, you will not experience such things as these even if you do, God being involved and informed will sort them out as petty.


Re: Man And Dick Enlargement

By Joyous (F)December 28, 2016, 07:17:00 AM
It will best if the husband just undergoes the procedure for the wife and for himself... If not, he will have himself to blame. As other issues (not even pertaining to sex) will be blown out of proportion by the wife in agony. And the husband will lead a miserable life from then onwards... No one would want that.
heheeee, Ramjoe you hit the nail by the head, the lady in question may even starve the man because of that but it is not the man's fault. For me I will like to keep things the way they were. Firstly the man knows he had the problem before getting married, right? He has to tell the lady and if she loves him , then she has to manage it like that. And I believe it will not be a problem. Here comes the advantages of marrying a virgin, as she doesn't know how the sex feels like she will think that's how it is.


Re: Man And Dick Enlargement

By Joyous (F)December 28, 2016, 07:24:51 AM
It will best if the husband just undergoes the procedure for the wife and for himself... If not, he will have himself to blame. As other issues (not even pertaining to sex) will be blown out of proportion by the wife in agony. And the husband will lead a miserable life from then onwards... No one would want that.
What if after the surgery and the thing goes flat completely without moving at all. Half bread 🍞 is better than none


Re: Man And Dick Enlargement

By Ramjoe (M)December 28, 2016, 09:35:24 PM
heheeee, Ramjoe you hit the nail by the head, the lady in question may even starve the man because of that but it is not the man's fault. For me I will like to keep things the way they were. Firstly the man knows he had the problem before getting married, right? He has to tell the lady and if she loves him , then she has to manage it like that. And I believe it will not be a problem. Here comes the advantages of marrying a virgin, as she doesn't know how the sex feels like she will think that's how it is.

Joyous! I can imagine... If you have not tasted, tested... Mmmmm... It is true you wouldn't know your sex life isn't fun. Even when your thirst stays, you wouldn't make much fuss about it.


Now, I am gonna start a search for my "Virgin".  :))


Re: Man And Dick Enlargement

By Ramjoe (M)December 28, 2016, 09:37:53 PM
What if after the surgery and the thing goes flat completely without moving at all. Half bread 🍞 is better than none

It is to the man's detriment but I believe that the wife must stay considering the fact that she made the husband undergo the procedure.


That would be terrible! The man will just be looking nice.... A vegetable!


Re: Man And Dick Enlargement

By Joyous (F)December 29, 2016, 03:23:23 AM
Joyous! I can imagine... If you have not tasted, tested... Mmmmm... It is true you wouldn't know your sex life isn't fun. Even when your thirst stays, you wouldn't make much fuss about it.


Now, I am gonna start a search for my "Virgin".  :))
Hahaaaaaheeeeee! I believe you will not regret it. Go for it, man.


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