Date: September 20, 2019, 09:25:31 AM
I Told My Boyfriend How Many People I’d Slept with…and He Didn’t Like the Answer: Romance : Nigerialog.com - Nigeria's Premier Online Forum
Okay, here we go!I don't buy the generalization that men feel that they "need to be sexually confident and experienced". In fact I quarrel with the idea of yoking confidence and experience. They are not necessarily the same thing, and it seems that the author is Misandrist by making this assumption. Experience can lead to confidence, but confidence can also come solo. A lot of men develop confidence from very little sexual experience, while other men still lack confidence even after sleeping with tons of women. So, let's settle that and move onto the main topic issue, which is whether a man should worry about his woman's "mileage" in men. So, to that point, i say to each his own.There are men who want to marry virgins or virtual virgins even when they have slept with hundreds of women. While there are men who would marry a woman who slept with hundreds of men even when they themselves have slept with very few women. Some men actually prefer sexually experienced women, particularly if those women have other good qualities that make them good life partners: good career, intelligence, maturity, good manners/etiquette, from good families, etc.Yet some men who have slept with anything on skirts still prefer to marry virgins who have no career, or educated, or intelligent, or from good families, etc. Methinks that the latter group are potential pedophiles! My advice to women is to first study the man they hope to marry to ascertain what type of men they are.And of course to avoid marrying men they are not compatible with.