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How you know you are emotionally needy

By: Gideon |Time : April 28, 2018, 02:27:08 AM
First things first; being emotionally needy is suffocating. Don’t get me wrong, it is normal to have needs, every relationship comes with its own demands. However, I draw the line at being desperately in need of constant attention and care.

Every successful relationship is as a result of the collective efforts of both parties to fulfill needs individually and collectively, a balance of give and take. Being emotionally needy is an unattractive colour that is quite unhealthy.

You are emotionally needy if you are too accommodating and always too available. C’mon ladies, you have got to have something doing that takes your time. You do not have to be available every single time he wants to see you. You do not have to cancel plans made and ditch friends just because you are in a relationship.

You know you are needy when he gives less than you do. You are always the one calling, texting, chatting and finding ways to be with him. When you are holding on to a relationship that is one-sided hoping he will deign to give you his attention, there is a problem somewhere that needs to be fixed.

When you disregard behaviors he manifests that are not meant to be tolerated, you are emotionally needy. Remaining in the relationship because of the need for someone to fill up the emotional hole you have and denying these negative traits will only hurt you more.

Re: How you know you are emotionally needy

By: Gideon |Time : April 28, 2018, 02:36:25 AM
The second to the last paragraph really describes an emotionally needy individual in a relationship. It should not be one sided but both parties should fulfil their part when it comes to emotions.

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