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He wants to record our love-making session

By: dayan (M) |Time : April 10, 2020, 07:01:30 PM
Dear Bunmi, my current boyfriend is a hunk, sophisticated and loving. He is also quite adventurous in his love-making.

A few weeks ago, he said he’d like to spice up our love life by bringing his camcorder into the bedroom and taping as we make love!

We currently live together, but until he made his weird suggestion, I had no idea he was a pervert!

Half joking, I told him he needed his head examined, but he laughed at me, saying a lot of his friends did it and that it wasn’t such a big deal. Is he normal?

Mandy, by e-mail.








Dear Mandy,

There is no evidence your boyfriend is a pervert. His request is, in fact, within the range of normal erotic play among consenting adults.

Quite a number of couples actually enjoy making love in front of a video camera and nobody is hurt as long as both partners agree the tapes will go no further than their own VCRs.

You sound as if your boyfriend’s request surprised, rather than offended you!

Why don’t you indulge his fantasy at least once? Perhaps you might just find the experience pleasurable or you might feel awkward and uncomfortable.

If you do, tell him you don’t relish the idea of being a porn star!



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Re: He wants to record our love-making session

By: dayan (M) |Time : April 10, 2020, 07:15:49 PM
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A few weeks ago, he said he’d like to spice up our love life by bringing his camcorder into the bedroom and taping as we make love!

Though I would have liked to start addressing this type of question from the spiritual side, I also believe that a lot of people are not spiritual (at least not straight-up) and therefore need a solution that still gives a deep perspective.

I believe that as the world continues to go down the unnatural road whereby people live in nuclear families and isolated in urban areas, sex lives (and other associated human interactions) will continue to suffer and would need "spicing up". The spice would not even arise if you live the right type of life and in the right environment.

Once we stepped out of the "garden of Eden" God prepared for us, EVERYTHING became fair game.

To this question, I would say, if you are prepared to have the video clips online where ANYBODY (including your future children if you've not had them yet) would be able to view the whole thing forever, then go ahead and make the tapes! 

The same man asking you for this may not even marry you - (scratch that, he would NOT marry you!).
And he probably doesn't care if the tapes go online -as a matter of fact a lot of men still use such things for bragging rights, and wouldn't give a toss if their own grandchildren viewed the tapes, as least they don't think that far.

So, this perspective needs to be given to whoever is thinking of doing it.

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