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Can You Stay Friends After Sex?

By GideonAugust 08, 2018, 06:52:19 AM
Every relationship has its moments, and so do friendships . Let ’s say you have a friend and , along the line, you both start getting sexually attracted to each other . Then you end up having sex with them , things get awkward , and it damages the friendship .
While this may seem like the way some modern -day relationships work , there are ways you can stay friends after having sex.
Here are a few tips :

Have “ the talk ”
It may seem easier to act like nothing happened or to avoid each other, most especially when it was a one-time thing. But it helps both parties to sit, talk and evaluate the friendship . Decide if you both want it to grow into a relationship or not.

Accept the decision made
Sometimes, the feelings may not be mutual , and one party may feel more than another . Either way , it is better to accept whatever decision you both make and move on or end the friendship .

Give some space
If you both have decided not to nurture the relationship , then you can either go ahead and continue as friends or take a healthy break from the friendship in a situation where the feeling isn ’t mutual.

Don't stalk each other
Most people say that the point when they stop stalking their ex is when they know they have finally moved on. Although it will take a while , this is one healthy way to make some space . Take up healthy hobbies , visit new places and just have fun.

Declare boundaries
More often than not when you have sex with a friend, it goes on more than once . Learn to declare boundaries and state what you really want out of the friendship. Until then, you may end up more hurt than when you started.
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Re: Can You Stay Friends After Sex?

By GideonAugust 08, 2018, 07:04:56 AM
Well,I can never do this but let me flow with the write-up.... Yes,we can remain friends with a view to having a relationship...


Re: Can You Stay Friends After Sex?

By princepointAugust 08, 2018, 09:26:48 PM
THAT THE POINT


Re: Can You Stay Friends After Sex?

By dayan (M)August 08, 2018, 09:58:03 PM
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More often than not when you have sex with a friend, it goes on more than once .

This is perhaps the most important thing to understand about this "problem".
I put problem in quotes because it depends on what led to the sex.
People don't just decide to have sex after being friends for some time.
In fact, if that happens, it most likely means that they fell in love. And they don't usually fall in "ordinary" love; they fall DEEP because they have known each other well enough. So, the idea of setting boundaries after the sex is mistaken.

So, to the question, I'd have to say NO.


Re: Can You Stay Friends After Sex?

By Ramjoe (M)August 09, 2018, 05:30:46 AM
This is perhaps the most important thing to understand about this "problem".
I put problem in quotes because it depends on what led to the sex.
People don't just decide to have sex after being friends for some time.
In fact, if that happens, it most likely means that they fell in love. And they don't usually fall in "ordinary" love; they fall DEEP because they have known each other well enough. So, the idea of setting boundaries after the sex is mistaken.

So, to the question, I'd have to say NO.

Once you get to that point, just like check points in games you must proceed. How you do that, depends on your kinda person.

The thing is, it will happen again (almost sure) like it's stated in the article... Once you get there, that part of the relationship is unlocked. And you can access it like never before. It really is a new dimension to the friendship that only a coward runs from.

I don't think any "friend" will intentionally take advantage of a friend like that. So if this happens, it's usually mutual. However, some may actually bow to cowardice and let go of that darling friend.

NO, YOU CAN'T STAY FRIENDS... Either you split (if one or the two is a coward) or become lovers.


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