img Nigerialog.com - Nigeria's Premier Online Forum - Be sure of the sexuality of your partner – BB Naija’s Leo Da Silva advises
Welcome, Guest.
Did you miss your activation email?

Date: September 17, 2019, 04:05:29 PM

Contact
imgimgimg

Be sure of the sexuality of your partner – BB Naija’s Leo Da Silva advises: Romance : Nigerialog.com - Nigeria's Premier Online Forum

104 views

Be sure of the sexuality of your partner – BB Naija’s Leo Da Silva advises

By: dayan (M) |Time : June 20, 2019, 05:26:33 AM
By Tolulope Abereoje

Ex-Big Brother Naija housemate, Leo Da Silva recently got internet users debating after he took to his Twitter page to tweet that couples should know their partners’ sexuality before they finally decide to start the lifetime journey together.

leo-naija.jpg

The reality TV star who seemed quite bothered about the topic stated that he is in no way trying to promote pre-marital sex as there are many ways to get to know someone without sex being involved.

According to him, partners tend to ignore some warning signs and this leads to problems when they finally settle down in marriage. But to ensure that everything is in place, partners need to be on the look out to be sure of the sexuality of who they are planning to live  forever with.

“Before you get married, be sure of the sexuality of your partner. I’m not trying to promote sex before marriage or anything like that. If you want to fornicate or not, that’s between you and your God. I’m just advising you all that it is important to know your partner’s sexuality. While getting to know them, do not ignore that aspect. Watch how they respond to things, look at the same sex, and talk about minor things. If possible, try to always look at what catches their gaze. Just pay attention. You don’t need to sleep with someone before you know these things,” he said.

Source

Re: Be sure of the sexuality of your partner – BB Naija’s Leo Da Silva advises

By: dayan (M) |Time : June 20, 2019, 05:27:36 AM
This is yet another controversial topic which I shall return to treat.
Meanwhile you are welcome to comment as usual.

Re: Be sure of the sexuality of your partner – BB Naija’s Leo Da Silva advises

By: dayan (M) |Time : June 20, 2019, 06:52:03 AM
Quote
I’m just advising you all that it is important to know your partner’s sexuality. While getting to know them, do not ignore that aspect. Watch how they respond to things, look at the same sex, and talk about minor things.

This is a HUGE problem particularly in Africa where society is strictly against same sex relationships.
So, what you get is a situation whereby lots of gay men hide their true orientation to fit into society.
They marry, but their wives cannot get them to perform well in bed.

However, I think that I've seen more of women do this than men in Africa. The reason is because men propose to women and sponsor all the marriage ceremonies.

Most African men who like to sleep with men still find ways to do so, while women don't easily find such outlets.

So, who suffers? The man who married a closet lesbian.

The result? The couple would NEVER share sexual fantasies which are key to sexual compatibility.

Without sexual compatibility, the man feels that something is missing from his wife, but cannot put fingers at exactly what the problem is. This leads to adultery and infidelity.

THIS PROBLEM IS BIG AND CAUSES A LOT OF OTHER PROBLEMS IN AFRICAN FAMILIES.

So, Mr Da Silva is SPOT ON with this advice.

There is a simple way of testing your potential wife for sexual orientation.
Yes, you don't have to sleep with her first to find out.
Simply engage her on sexual topics or fantasy talks, and watch carefully how she reacts to them.

I presume that in situations where a normal woman would be turned on by certain fantasy talks, a hidden lesbian may be annoyed by it. This is the surest bet that I can think of.
If you pay attention you would not miss those fine details.

Re: Be sure of the sexuality of your partner – BB Naija’s Leo Da Silva advises

By: Ramjoe (M) |Time : June 21, 2019, 08:53:38 AM
Thank you Mr. Leo... Man's gotta watch the signs.

Quote

According to him, partners tend to ignore some warning signs and this leads to problems when they finally settle down in marriage. But to ensure that everything is in place, partners need to be on the look out to be sure of the sexuality of who they are planning to live  forever with.


Sex part of marriage is quite more important than people would (publicly) admit and that's a huge problem. You have to know what your partner wants and how he/she wants it. What makes him/her tick.

And no, it's not just about sex. Whatever you want in your partner, look out for such things - pay attention to how he/she manages finance, how tidy they keep their rooms, how they like their vegetables, how often he/she changes underwears... Forgive me but you just have to pay attention to details so you don't miss it.

Getting to know your partner matters.

0 Members and 1 Guest are viewing this topic. Reply

web site traffic statistics