Date: September 21, 2019, 02:19:07 AM
At 28, still a virgin and no girlfriend: Romance : Nigerialog.com - Nigeria's Premier Online Forum
Shyness is a HUGE problem for a lot of men out there who suffer in silence. The lucky ones eventually get married, though late. And when they do, their women ride them like bicycles. There is no single solution because sometimes the reason that one man became a "forty years old virgin" is totally different from that of another man.I tend to think that the shortest cut to solving this problem is to keep friends that are "outgoing".However, it can be tough too hanging with those friends because they may find the person boring and look at him as a "kill joy" because frankly those types of men have this weird inclination to "save the lady" at all times.Fact remains that relationship that lead to marriages are sexual in intent and so, there are no rooms for "gentleman" in it. Women do not respect men who can't rise to that "mate" title, and "mate title" is, to put it mildly, not "pure" in intent and practice. Sex is not really for the "innocent", and that is what some of these shy men are. And women don't need "innocence" in their mates. Whoever has this problem must change his mindset unless he wants to stay single and celibate all his life. This is putting it bluntly now.