Date: September 21, 2019, 02:09:51 AM
4 Reasons You Should Consider Dating An Older Woman: Romance : Nigerialog.com - Nigeria's Premier Online Forum
That submission is that things get relative very quickly in making these evaluations.The broad brush guess would be that the "optimum female old age" for guys considering dating older women should be between 30 and 45 years; ie before menopause (up to 55 years for some women who are biologically and psychologically up to it). Post menopausal women ain't fun. I stand to be corrected tho! For guys considering dating them, a rough optimal age would be 24- 34years. Anything below these male ages may not end well(due to immaturity both biological and psychological), and anything above those ages may be the same as a guy dating his age mate. I go out on a limb here hoping that someone would prove me wrong though.Oga Ramjoe, what's your take?
Hehehehe... Talking about how relative this kind of discussion is - it depends on what the guy really wants (and that has what he can live with at the center). The guy must be a "real man" for a start ie he's got to be the one making decisions for himself and not someone else or some group of "someones" - he's got to have the balls to choose without apologies. And no matter how crazy it may sound nothing beats INNER PEACE in this world because in it you find a lot of great things - for example you get hope, love, contentment - most importantly you get fulfilment; it allows you to breakthrough any barrier if you never lose it.... Solomon made it pretty clear in the book of Ecclesiastes (emphasis on chapters 1 and 2) that this inner peace and joy within can't be traded for anything (to put it more rightly, shouldn't be traded for anything else). Relax, I didn't forget the topic... All I'm saying is that if what you want is in an older woman, don't hesitate to go for her. In Africa, to narrow it down, in Nigeria - especially the "western world" where the confused are a lot more than the "not" - it might be extremely difficult but I think it'd be worth it eventually. I agree that both sides (male and female) must attain a level of maturity before these kinda relationships can even be discussed. To support this stance, you'd do well to remember how many high school sweethearts you used to know eventually got married to each other (please, I'm not talking about bollyhood here); few, very few. And one of the main reasons it hardly worked out is that most of those high school couples eventually grew up (matured), discovered they wanted something/someone else - on many occasions, these ladies levelled up, they moved on to bigger things, bigger men, older men than their high school heartthrobs - the ladies knew that the older guys could always get 'em their desires where (almost all) the younger ones are still finding their feet. That's how it used to be, that's how it still works. However, the script has got a little twist somewhere nowadays as these dudes don't take long to grow up like they used to. They see what they want quicker than they used to - it may lie with "young" ladies or the "old" ladies - if that's really what they want they go for it. Methinks, that's right. Life is short - live now.Ball's in your court...