Nice piece.... I always believe in the concept or ideology that it is better you have a home than a house. Having a duplex does not guarantee success... But having individuals who stays in one room and who loves each other goes a long way in enriching life.
There is a great differences between Home and House. Some people are from home while others are from house. Even if you want to marry make sure that your spouse is from home not house. Because the end result of people from house is tragedy.
oh well, some.individuals that are brought up in a 'house' kind of environment trun out okay though, what Yoruba's call 'won tun ara won bi' translated 'they rebuilt themselves. Where we grow up in, however hostile, shouldn't determine how we turn out in life. A girl from a house of chaos can turn out okay if she dissociate herself from her background by keeping good company.
Have seen what am looking for your in comment, that conditional word if she dissociate herself. But is only few of them that rebuild herself.
true it is all because many have the flock mentality. They are too scared to venture out of their comfort zone. Immediately they begin to sense a kind of comfortability in their present state, they stay put and end up in the same realm as their folks