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Woman loses marriage for allegedly bringing lover home

By: dayan (M) |Time : November 29, 2019, 09:37:49 AM
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A petty trader, Mrs Molade Owolabi, on Thursday lost her 11-year-old marriage to alleged adultery, as an Igando Customary Court in Lagos  granted her estranged husband, Tayo’s request to dissolve the union.

The Court President, Mr Koledoye Adeniyi, held that  it appeared that the couple was tired of the marriage as efforts to reconcile them failed.

“Since both parties consented to the dissolution of their marriage, this court has no choice than to dissolve the marriage.

“The court hereby pronounces the marriage between Mr Tayo Owolabi and Mrs Molade Owolabi dissolved today; both of you henceforth cease to be husband and wife.

“Each of you should go  his or her separate way unmolested; the court wishes both of you well in your future endeavours,” he said.

Koledoye said that the petitioner must be responsible for their children’s feeding, education and general welfare.

The News Agency of Nigeria (NAN ) reports that Tayo had sought an end to the marriage, claiming  that Molade  brought her lover into their bedroom for sex.

“Our 11-year-old daughter used to tell me that her mother brings a man home and that she used to see them making love.

“I once saw her love chat on WhatsApp with a man called Timothy; when I asked her, she quickly deleted those messages. I reported her to her two eldest sisters,” he submitted.

Tayo also told the court that Molade was having an extra-marital affair with another man identified  as Stanley.

“Molade came to my mother’s burial in Ondo State and left that same day; I later discovered that she came with Stanley and both of them lodged in a hotel.

“I was still in my village when Molade called that she was sick and admitted.I rushed to Lagos the following day and I was told by the nurses that a man came to pass the night with her; I later discovered him to be Stanley.

“When I confronted Stanley, he confessed that he was in a relationship with my wife but begged for forgiveness.

“I decided to know more about Stanley; so, I searched for him on Facebook and saw pictures of him and my wife which were taken inside our bedroom and on our bed,” he added.

The 35-year-old unemployed presented to the court the pictures printed from Stanley’s Facebook page as evidence.

The petitioner said that he moved out of their matrimonial home when his wife said she needed a space.

“There was a day we had a misunderstanding and she got me arrested.

“At the police station, I was asked to make an undertaking that I would  not return to my house, a promise I have kept.

“Two weeks after I left the house, my wife changed her marital status on Facebook from married to divorce and also changed her surname to her maiden name.

“Our neighbours called to tell me that Stanley always came to pass the night in our house.”

According to him, Molade has been denying him sex since December, 2018, and always threatened his life with a  knife.

In her response, Molade consented  to the divorce and accused her husband of infidelity.

“My husband has been cheating on me without my knowledge. I got to know last week when I went to his family house, where I met his new wife and a baby of about six months.”

The 30-year-old trader denied having affairs with Timothy and Stanley.

“I sell watermelon; Timothy is my customer while Stanley comes to assist me in my shop.

“The picture of Stanley and I that my husband saw on social media were taken in the sitting room not in our bedroom as he claimed.

“Stanley came to stay with me when I was admitted at a hospital because my husband travelled for his mother’s burial and there was nobody to stay with me,’’ she said.

The mother of three said that Tayo turned her into a punching bag.

“My husband is a wife beater; he once beat me to the extent that I lost a pregnancy. I have scars on my body due to his frequent physical assaults on me.

“One day, he beat me, tore my clothes and pushed me out of the house naked. Our neighbours clothed me; I went to the police station to report the matter, and he was invited.

“When the police asked me what I wanted, I said I needed a space – that he should leave the house for me for some time.

He was then asked to make an undertaking that he would give me a space as I requested,’’ Molade  told the court.

Molade also said she denied her husband sex because she no longer had any sexual feeling toward him. (NAN)

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Re: Woman loses marriage for allegedly bringing lover home

By: dayan (M) |Time : November 29, 2019, 09:53:52 AM
Okay, I was sharing my anger equally between these two people in marriage, until I got to this below and my anger shifted firmly to the man:

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The mother of three said that Tayo turned her into a punching bag.

“My husband is a wife beater; he once beat me to the extent that I lost a pregnancy. I have scars on my body due to his frequent physical assaults on me.

“One day, he beat me, tore my clothes and pushed me out of the house naked. Our neighbours clothed me; I went to the police station to report the matter, and he was invited.


“When the police asked me what I wanted, I said I needed a space – that he should leave the house for me for some time.

He was then asked to make an undertaking that he would give me a space as I requested,’’ Molade  told the court.

The woman's story didn't add up, but the police could not have arrested the man or placed restraining order on him if he didn't beat his wife, and that (wife beating) to me is a HUGE NO, NO, NO.

I understand that a man can get really frustrated, but that is NOT an excuse to beat women.

I tend to notice that poor men always think that they can subdue their wives through beatings, but that only makes matters worse.

By beating his wife, this man handed her a perfect pretext to now officially cheat on him more, and deny him sex:

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Molade also said she denied her husband sex because she no longer had any sexual feeling toward him.

Methinks that she lied through her teeth when she implied that the husband's violence towards her caused her to lose sexual interest in him. THAT IS NOT TRUTH AT ALL.

Once a women has experienced sex with another man, all bets are off! You cannot really tell how she handles it or how she carries on going forward. This is why most men fear and hate the idea of their wives sleeping with other men.

Some women are perfectly capable of retaining control of themselves after experiencing sex with another man, while other women may lose their damn minds entirely and go berserk, like this woman has apparently done: going all the way to bringing her lovers into her matrimonial bed, and taking selfies there!

The real victims of this marriage is the THREE children who would now start facing uncertainty in their young lives.

Re: Woman loses marriage for allegedly bringing lover home

By: alagbe003 (M) |Time : December 01, 2019, 09:07:08 AM
The children will suffer from this divorce.

Re: Woman loses marriage for allegedly bringing lover home

By: Ramjoe (M) |Time : December 04, 2019, 09:08:50 AM
Here's my take.
Tayo screwed it up

He is poor (on many grounds)... That's evident in the way he conducted himself/his family - he's jobless, a woman beater  :o even his wife left him at his mother's funeral, she brings her lovers home, she takes selfies with them  ::) as in Stanley was even tending to her at the hospital over the night...

Is he man enough?

In my opinion, he's not man enough. And he went about it the wrong way - beating Molade... That's awful to say the least. Only petty men show manliness by indulging in wife beating.

I said he's poor. I am not talking about his pockets or bank balance alone. I have seen a "rich" man - by that I mean a wealthy man - lose control all because he wanted to show his authority over his celebrity wife. He took her off the TV, cancelled her interviews, took down her blog - she "succumbed" because she badly wanted the union to work... Now, that stinks. It's all wrong...

Manliness should be shown more in bed, in provision for the family and in working your ass off to protect the family not in how many punches you can throw at your wife...



Quick question: How will Tayo provide for the children now?

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