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She denies me sex but prefers giving it to her other lovers —Husband

By dayan (M)December 19, 2016, 04:46:05 AM


Worried by his wife’s suspected adulterous acts, Mr Moshood Adedapo, has approached an Igando Customary Court in Lagos State to dissolve his 22-year-old marriage.

The News Agency of Nigeria (NAN) reported that Adedapo , 70, told the court that his wife, Balikis, who had bore him three children, was promiscuous.

“There was a day she went to pass the night in one of her lover’s house, unfortunately, the wife of her lover, who travelled, came back unannounced and caught them in bed.

“She beat my wife mercilessly, stripped her naked and seized her clothes, I then received a call that someone was about to murder my wife.

“I got the address and rushed there with some of my neighbours to rescue her.”

He alleged that his wife usually went out under the guise of attending vigil, “not knowing that it was her male friend’s houses she used to go.

“I also caught her with a man she had introduced to me as her brother and I ordered her to pack out of my house, she pleaded and promised to change but she did not.

“She used to deny me sex but preferred giving it to her `other lovers,’” he said.

Moshood said his wife was always fond of threatening to kill him.

“My wife always tells me she will kill me one day and I am afraid she will carry out her threat one day.

“I want the court to separate us before she terminates my life,” he said.

Balikis, 51, told the court that she denied her husband sex because he was fond of beating her.

“Yes, I denied him sex because he used to beat me,” she said.

The mother of three said that her husband turned their children against her.

“My husband used to order my children to beat me, all the scars on my body were  a result of the constant beatings I received from them,” she said.

President of the court, Mr Adegboyega Omilola, adjourned the case to January 17 for hearing.

Source: Nigerian Tribune


Re: She denies me sex but prefers giving it to her other lovers —Husband

By dayan (M)December 19, 2016, 04:49:16 AM
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My husband used to order my children to beat me, all the scars on my body were  a result of the constant beatings I received from them,” she said.

Truth can sometimes be very easy to spot.
Madam, your kids beating you on their father's orders is likely a lie because most kids side with their mothers in times of conflict.
So check yourself!


Re: She denies me sex but prefers giving it to her other lovers —Husband

By dayan (M)December 19, 2016, 04:52:24 AM
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“She beat my wife mercilessly, stripped her naked and seized her clothes, I then received a call that someone was about to murder my wife.

“I got the address and rushed there with some of my neighbours to rescue her.”

He alleged that his wife usually went out under the guise of attending vigil, “not knowing that it was her male friend’s houses she used to go.

“I also caught her with a man she had introduced to me as her brother and I ordered her to pack out of my house, she pleaded and promised to change but she did not.

“She used to deny me sex but preferred giving it to her `other lovers,’” he said.

Moshood said his wife was always fond of threatening to kill him.

“My wife always tells me she will kill me one day and I am afraid she will carry out her threat one day. 

At 51 this woman is threatening to kill her husband because of sex.
There is really nothing more dangerous to a husband than a promiscuous wife.


Re: She denies me sex but prefers giving it to her other lovers —Husband

By GideonDecember 19, 2016, 06:26:23 PM
The woman is wrong,why commit adultery?... Well,..If she is unrepentant in her promiscuous ways,.Divorce is best way out because she has already destroy the sanctity of the marriage bed.


Re: She denies me sex but prefers giving it to her other lovers —Husband

By Adenosine (M)December 19, 2016, 10:28:40 PM
I can't believe what this woman is saying at all because she has spoil the show with her act. You denied your wife buh you can give it to others at 51, you are shameless. The man also at 70,seriously your case is some how..


Re: She denies me sex but prefers giving it to her other lovers —Husband

By naijarian (F)December 20, 2016, 03:19:50 AM
Dayan, it UA possible for the kids to beat their mother oo, haven't we heard if sin killing mum not to talk if beating. She maybe be promiscuous true true sa, but a promiscuous woman at 51 hmmm. E get as e be ooo


Re: She denies me sex but prefers giving it to her other lovers —Husband

By dayan (M)December 25, 2016, 06:18:50 AM
Dayan, it UA possible for the kids to beat their mother oo, haven't we heard if sin killing mum not to talk if beating. She maybe be promiscuous true true sa, but a promiscuous woman at 51 hmmm. E get as e be ooo

Those ones are not in Africa. They are either middle eastern or "Asian minor" (think of Arabs, Afghans, Pakistanis, and Indians).
In Africa our mothers are never wrong o.  :))
I've heard of fathers being beaten by own children, but never mothers.


Re: She denies me sex but prefers giving it to her other lovers —Husband

By naijarian (F)December 25, 2016, 12:53:38 PM
Those ones are not in Africa. They are either middle eastern or "Asian minor" (think of Arabs, Afghans, Pakistanis, and Indians).
In Africa our mothers are never wrong o.  :))
I've heard of fathers being beaten by own children, but never mothers.
e dey happen oo. On several occasions I have read of sons stabbing mothers and even one stabbed his own sister. A dude in Magodo stabbed both his parents. Another in one Igbo land stabbed his mum over witchcraft allegation.


Re: She denies me sex but prefers giving it to her other lovers —Husband

By dayan (M)December 27, 2016, 02:05:40 PM
e dey happen oo. On several occasions I have read of sons stabbing mothers and even one stabbed his own sister. A dude in Magodo stabbed both his parents. Another in one Igbo land stabbed his mum over witchcraft allegation.

Yes of course it happens on extremely rare occasions (in Igbo land) and is mainly from either a mentally sick person beating or killing his or her mother, or in such instance you just pointed out where a person seriously suspects his mother of witchcraft.
But highly unlikely (I'd even say NEVER) on issues of the mothers' sexual immorality. People don't even look at their mothers sexual tendencies -they just look away! I think it is because mothers in that part of the world love and care for their children almost to a level of obsessive care. And the children know that. So, mother is hardly wrong... even if she were sleeping with men other than the dad.
And if you dared crack a joke with anybody's mothers' sexual tendencies, it can fetch you a whole day's fight.
I guess it is cultural.
Fathers can get beaten by his kids for any number of reasons ranging from the fact that he keeps a lover aside from mom, or he is a drunkard, or he is deliberately failing to provide for his children. Things that moms get away with!


Re: She denies me sex but prefers giving it to her other lovers —Husband

By naijarian (F)December 29, 2016, 05:51:59 PM
Yes of course it happens on extremely rare occasions (in Igbo land) and is mainly from either a mentally sick person beating or killing his or her mother, or in such instance you just pointed out where a person seriously suspects his mother of witchcraft.
But highly unlikely (I'd even say NEVER) on issues of the mothers' sexual immorality. People don't even look at their mothers sexual tendencies -they just look away! I think it is because mothers in that part of the world love and care for their children almost to a level of obsessive care. And the children know that. So, mother is hardly wrong... even if she were sleeping with men other than the dad.
And if you dared crack a joke with anybody's mothers' sexual tendencies, it can fetch you a whole day's fight.
I guess it is cultural.
Fathers can get beaten by his kids for any number of reasons ranging from the fact that he keeps a lover aside from mom, or he is a drunkard, or he is deliberately failing to provide for his children. Things that moms get away with!
hehehe. True sa. Mother's can't do any wrong in d eyes of the kids sa. My people will say "to obi eni ba si idi sile, koto si omo lati so wipe ko padi mo' it means its too big for your mouth to caution your mum that her yiansh dey open.


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