If it were me, I'd say "chose wisely.' But deciding to loose it before marriage doesn't mean she is loose or morally degraded. We need to start go rethink this Virginity keeping trend based on religious teachings. It is like saying if you loose your Virginity before marriage, you won't get a hood husband or have children. And we all know that's not the case. So, if she wants to face hr studies and keep it yes please. If it is because religion says its better, hmmmmm. Being a virgin doesn't guarantee a happy marriage or good husband.
@Topic,Well, it depends...She should keep it hopefully till she gets married... SOON- say 18-20yrs MAX.That's all.
What advice will you as a man give your daughter about keeping her virginity before marriage?
For me: It think the advice will depend on my daughter's personality. firstly I will say, "KEEP IT" and I will list all the disadvantages of early sex. But on the other hand like I said earlier if she is the kind of girl that is matured (in mind and highly intelligent) and if she wants it I will say ok but bring home your man and get ready to marry soon. Since you are ready for sex you should as well get ready for marriage.
what if she did not get married within the age bracket, Then what?
no age jor. No child should have sex, so its from 18 till whenever she/he can hold it for.Cos nothing is predictable. Like joyous mentioned, what happens if marriage doesn't happen within that time. But I'd kk to think you meant when she should start being sexuak though
I said 18-20 which means she should keep it till that age. 18 is no child.
yeah I know. I agree with what you replied joyous with too. But, such will only cause anxiety and she or he may end up with the wrong person. Mum says it's good gir me to get married at 21 since I'm outta uni anyway. Then focus will be on marriage and not really on love and it's exploration.
The focus should always be on marriage, but the girl obviously has to accept to marry and live with that person for life.Currently, people live it backwards -find love, then marry. I say find a husband or a husband material, and then test for love like you would test the ground for oil deposit. If the oil (in this case love) is there, it will manifest, and then the marriage happens.I know it is counter intuitive and anachronistic to how people do it these days, but I believe that "these days people" are wrong.