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Research reveals that there are 5 main reasons for adultery. Here they are

By: dayan (M) |Time : April 26, 2019, 09:05:07 AM
Research reveals that there are 5 main reasons for adultery. These are:

1. Loneliness.
This can be when one partner spends a lot of their time away from home either concentrating on their professional career or simply preferring to spend more time with their friends or pursuing their own interests.
This is the elephant of problems in marriage these days as people get busier in pursuit of money for sustenance of the family.
You spot it when your spouse makes ANY statement alluding to it. A lot of the times, people don't even say anything, but if you are observant, you will notice it and take action. And if your spouse EVER voices it out? Swing into action immediately because a lot has already built up before that.
Make out time for your spouse, or someone else may do that job for you.
And the price? Your marriage.

2. Communication barriers.
Poor communication invariably causes problems in a marriage or relationship. Problems and arguments left unresolved can easily compound and fester when partners are either unwilling or unable to discuss these with each other.
How to spot it? When your spouse sighs instead of saying what he or she wanted to say. Or when the spouse says "never mind". This is an indication that serious trouble is growing quietly in the marriage.
Poor communication is a factor of compatibility; social, emotional, mental, physical, and psychological. When two people are not compatible, they tend to be less interested in what the other is trying to say. Compatible people can talk (or not talk) and yet have the happiest relationship. Some "talk" through actions, and that is okay too provided the other understands everything.


3. Lack of love and affection.
Love and affection are essential ingredients in any marriage or relationship. Lack of affection or love is one of the most common reasons for adultery. People will look to others when these needs are not being met by their spouse or partner.
Often love begins with care, and from care to protection, and from protection to providing for each other.
The fastest way to test love is by testing for care. A person cannot love another that he or she does not care for.
How to test this? Do something extremely generous for your spouse. After sometime (when they may have forgotten about it) ask him or her to do something differently but equally generous for you. Hint, it mustn't be something that involves money. It must be something that demands personal sacrifice. If he or she is not prepared to sacrifice for you, then know that you are in a loveless marriage.

4. A poor sexual relationship
Boredom in the bedroom will often lead to one or even both partners going off and seeking excitement and variety elsewhere.
This problem is pervasive in many marriages but is mostly "managed" or ignored outright ... until too late.
Face your sexual problems head-on ASAP, or regret after you are divorced. To solve a sexual problem successfully often involves testing for Numbers 1-3 first.

5. Lack of intimacy
Marriages need intimacy to survive. Without this in your marriage you may well feel unloved, rejected and unwanted.
Intimacy means that you and your spouse share emotional and sexual fantasies; example, both of you are turned on by similar stories, movies, events, books, associations, type of friends, etc. Intimate couples understand each other while outsiders stay baffled.
How to test for this. Play a "truth or dare" kind of game with your spouse to find out which fantasies you share.
Focus on the ones you share and go from there.

So there you have the 5 top reasons for adultery and the scary statistics that go with them. If you are aware of any of these issues in your own marriage maybe you should address them before it's too late!

Re: Research reveals that there are 5 main reasons for adultery. Here they are

By: dayan (M) |Time : April 26, 2019, 09:05:39 AM
Detailed list.
No doubt.

Re: Research reveals that there are 5 main reasons for adultery. Here they are

By: alagbe003 (M) |Time : April 26, 2019, 02:16:14 PM
Well researched article, may God help married couples to abide by their marital vows.

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