Date: October 14, 2019, 04:59:17 PM
Nigerians react as women propose to men: Family : Nigerialog.com - Nigeria's Premier Online Forum
As an African it seems odd, but it is not bad for a woman to propose to a man, but my fear is that it takes a mature and responsible man not to take such lady for granted.
Well, not to sound nihilistic, but the men are already taking them for granted by "using" them and not marrying them. Do you think that all these unmarried women are virgins? They engage in sexual activities too. And that is how fornication and adultery multiplies. More importantly, the women propose to people they know already. It makes no sense to propose to a total stranger... and of course he can say no to such proposal. No be by force. The way I look at it is this: If a woman is good enough to have sex with, then she must be good enough to be someone's wife... and I don't care which number of wife she is; at least she has a "covering" per biblical prescription. It is my personal theory that societies where women are less married are more amoral. And such societies are also more wicked. And they also suffer sociocultural breakdown. Unmarried women (who would otherwise like to be married but are not) is a dangerous problem for a society.