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My husband of 48 years is ogling women online

By: dayan (M) |Time : August 17, 2019, 11:28:58 PM
We are both in our 70s, but after years of feeling adored I discovered he watches porn and looks at women in their underwear. Now I feel betrayed and hurt


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I used to feel adored. My husband used to say that when he thought of sex, it was always with me. We have been married for 48 years. I am 70, he is 72. Quite by accident, I discovered my husband watches pornography and searches online for women in underwear to ogle.

I am utterly devastated. The latter upsets me more than the porn. He used to ask me to wear sexy underwear, but hasn’t for a long time. I thought it was because he was older, but now I know he hasn’t lost interest in sex, just in me. By the same token, given his age, I could feel the same. But I don’t. I feel betrayed, hurt, old and ugly. We have a close family who would be torn apart if we were to split up. I don’t want to confide in my friends. I don’t know how to get over this.

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Re: My husband of 48 years is ogling women online

By: dayan (M) |Time : August 17, 2019, 11:58:37 PM
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I am utterly devastated. The latter upsets me more than the porn. He used to ask me to wear sexy underwear, but hasn’t for a long time. I thought it was because he was older, but now I know he hasn’t lost interest in sex, just in me. By the same token, given his age, I could feel the same. But I don’t. I feel betrayed, hurt, old and ugly.

I can say a whole lot more about this, but for now let me simply say that things like this are likely common these days because of what society has become.

People are now living in more unnatural environments and circumstances than ever before.

Men, for example, used to be very busy doing farm work or some other physically demanding job.

And naked women were essentially non-existent, unless you make one naked!

These days, men (whether young or old) do less physical work, which makes them have all these biochemicals swirling in their systems looking for outlet. Natural outlets no longer exist in the increasing isolationist and insular world. So, unnatural outlets have taken over.

Things like this expose, once again, the natural differences between the human genders.
Not to say that women don't get horny in their seventies; just that more men are than women.

Men are outward "animals" while women are inward animals.

It used to be that men "chased down" women before being able to see their nakedness, but these days men only need to turn on their computers, load the browser, and viola! they can view ANY type of women on any level of nakedness.  They can view much much more... but let me not digress...

Methinks that the old woman in this story is still living in olden days. She really needs to get some education about the realities of today. Her husband is still in the house with her, isn't he?
He has not gone out, yet, to seek women. The old dude is bored as most men of today are bored by less physical work and more indoor lifestyles.

Not endorsing his actions, but using words like "I am utterly devastated" because your husband -who is obviously in the twilight of his life- is just goofing around to pass time, is clueless and mistaken.

I don't want to repeat my usual "this is why I now believe more in my old African marriage system", because I would be sounding like a broken record.

The point is that life has been made much more  difficult by people who just can't calm down, people who can't let go of failing beliefs and expectations, people who refuse to understand, or accept, that they are mere mortals trying to wade through the oceans of life.

The fact that she is even considering divorce because of this is even more banal, and shows how valueless her marriage is to her.
If she wants to divorce her probably senile husband, she should go ahead; but if she thinks that her husband is vain, she herself is even more vain for ever contemplating divorce on grounds that her husband ogled women thousands of miles away.
What da hell is the world turning into!  ;D  :))


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