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Man allegedly rapes, kills mother for having affairs with multiple men

By: dayan (M) |Time : November 19, 2020, 06:55:00 PM
A 21-year-old agricultural worker from Karnataka’s Haveri district in India was arrested on Saturday for allegedly raping and murdering his mother.

The Police said that the man allegedly accused his mother of having affairs with multiple men. He had allegedly asked her to stop seeing other men. On the evening of November 12, the mother and son allegedly argued, after which he is said to have raped and killed her.

According to the Shiggaon Police, the victim, a 40-year-old agricultural worker, was living with her son at their residence in Vanahalli. The woman’s husband had died 15 years ago and she had been in a relationship with another man from the same area.

The residents of the area allegedly told the man that his mother had been having affairs with multiple men. Angered by it, he had fought with her regarding her boyfriend on multiple occasions in the past. Shiggaon Police said that over a week before the murder, the 21-year-old man had argued with his mother and demanded that she break off her relationship with her boyfriend.

“The woman had allegedly told her son that she wanted to be with her boyfriend. This had led to a huge argument,” the Shiggaon Police said. On the morning of November 12, the woman and her sister had gone to harvest the jowar crops in the fields. They finished work and headed home. Police said that the woman’s son allegedly forced her to drink alcohol. He then dragged her into the fields near Gangibhavi Road. An argument ensued and the man allegedly pushed his mother to the ground and raped and strangled her.

On the morning of November 13, when the victim’s sister arrived at her nephew’s residence, he is said to have informed her that his mother had already left for the fields. By Friday night, when she did not return home, the victim’s sister, her husband and daughter organised a search party to look for her. They found her body in the jowar fields near Gangibhavi Road at around 9 pm. The victim’s sister filed a complaint with the police and allegedly revealed that the mother and son were fighting constantly.

“My daughter and I began suspecting that he had something to do with her death because when we found her body, her clothes were in a disarray. We had asked him many times on Friday (November 13) about my sister’s whereabouts and he lied repeatedly. When I filed the complaint with the police, I had mentioned his name, when they asked  me if I suspected anyone’s involvement,” the victim’s sister told TNM, while adding that the residents in and around Vanahalli had been speaking ill about her sister and had spread rumours that she was having affairs with multiple men.

“She was seeing one man but you know how people talk about women who have affairs after their husbands die. My nephew used to verbally abuse her when people began talking,” she said.

On Saturday morning, the Shiggaon Police took the 21-year-old man into custody based on statements given by the victim’s sister and niece. Upon interrogation, the man allegedly confessed to the crime. An FIR was registered at the Shiggaon Police Station under sections 376 (rape) and 302 (murder) of the Indian Penal Code on Saturday evening. He was produced before the magistrate on Monday and has been remanded to judicial custody.

Source: The News Minute

Re: Man allegedly rapes, kills mother for having affairs with multiple men

By: dayan (M) |Time : November 19, 2020, 07:07:17 PM
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“She was seeing one man but you know how people talk about women who have affairs after their husbands die. My nephew used to verbally abuse her when people began talking,” she said.

At first I thought that this was a case of a son who killed his mother due to deep seated rage about her promiscuous lifestyle, i.e maybe people mocking him about his mother's sexual indiscretions ...
but then I came across this...

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Police said that the woman’s son allegedly forced her to drink alcohol. He then dragged her into the fields near Gangibhavi Road. An argument ensued and the man allegedly pushed his mother to the ground and raped and strangled her.

Why did he make his mother to drink alcohol first?

It means that she most likely was rejecting his sexual advances on her, perhaps a sexual interest and urge he developed over the years seeing his mother with multiple men.

She most plausibly refused or rejected his sexual advances on her, as should be the case.
But then he devised a way to make her pliant to his advances.

And when he got her drunk, she still resisted his sexual moves, and in the frustration, and in her state of alcohol comatose or near complete incompetence, he raped her, and perhaps inadvertently strangled her to death while she resisted till the end.

I took time to detail this most likely scenario, because I want to say a few things more, next ...

Re: Man allegedly rapes, kills mother for having affairs with multiple men

By: dayan (M) |Time : November 19, 2020, 07:24:57 PM
Firstly, this is A VERY EVIL SON, and no matter what his mother's sexual escapades might have been, this boy had no business raping and killing his mother in the process.

This is why I have this duality about facts of life, the real things of life, how they happen.

I bet that when this woman had this son, the whole community must have rejoiced because " a son was born".
Most societies of the world value male children , a lot!

Had this woman given birth to a daughter, she may have not been as happy at time of birth, but then again the daughter would not have raped her to death!
Now, her own son has raped and killed her.

The first lesson is to endeavour to understand that life is complex and never straightforward.

The second lesson is that being a parent brings with it a level of responsibility for which many people are not ready to shoulder.

Most of the times, people are DESPERATE for children without ever sparing a thought about the responsibility that comes with it. Being a parent is HEAVY LIFTING TASK. It demands HUGE SACRIFICES, if you want your kids to turn out right.

Most parents these days shield their children from these truths of life, but it has be said!
If it is not said, the children will grow up and start having children without being prepared to sacrifice their sexual lives in exchange for training their children aright. That is why we have many bad mothers today!

Latter day mothers who do "slaying" on social media sow deviant sexual seeds in their own children, and the lines are getting blurred evermore in relationships between children and parents.

Societies should push back MASSIVELY at this notion that a parent can be anything to a child other than a parent.

In Nigeria, the good news is that we have traditional beliefs; in Igboland for example it is an ABORMINATION UNPARALLLED for a child to have inappropriate relationship with parents. Period.
It has to be said here so that the usual copycats don't bring such alien evil into our pristine African societies.
Aru!

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