img Nigerialog.com - Nigeria's Premier Online Forum - Divorce: Husband, wife accuse each other of infidelity
Welcome, Guest.
Did you miss your activation email?

Date: August 17, 2019, 12:17:16 PM

Contact
imgimgimg

Divorce: Husband, wife accuse each other of infidelity : Family : Nigerialog.com - Nigeria's Premier Online Forum

148 views

Divorce: Husband, wife accuse each other of infidelity

By: Ramjoe (M) |Time : January 04, 2019, 02:18:43 PM
A Mapo Customary Court in Ibadan, on Friday, dissolved a five- year-old marriage between one Suliyat and Ridwan Olaomi over counter allegation of infidelity and lack of care.

 In dissolving the marriage, the court’s President, Chief Ademola Odunade awarded the custody of their four-year-old child to Suliyat and ordered Ridwan to pay N5000 monthly allowance for the child’s upkeep in addition to being responsible for his education and other welfare.

The petitioner, Suliyat, had told the court that her husband was fond of abandoning her for his secret lovers. “My lord, I made a terrible mistake when I decided to marry Ridwan five years ago because he does not take care of me and our child. “Anytime he returns from work, Ridwan leaves home to spend his time with a young girl near our house. In fact, he locked me out one day when I went to search for him in the night. That night, my child and I slept outside because he prevented us from entering the house. I am tired of Ridwan’s maltreatment and I no longer love him,” Suliyat said.

The respondent did not deny the allegations leveled against him. Ridwan, a mechanic, however, argued that his wife was also a cheat who lay about. “My lord, I can’t count how many times I have established businesses for Suliyat and on many occasions, her shop had been burgled. It is only her shop that is usually burgled among the set of shops in the neighbourhood. My findings revealed that some of those men that sleep with her also come around to rob her.

“Suliyat acquired a loan from a microfinance bank and I was forced to refund loan when she was bankrupt. Suliyat is not a sincere wife, I have done everything humanly possible to make her turn a new leaf, but she remained adamant,” Ridwan said.

 The News Agency of Nigeria (NAN) reports that the duo had lived at Olomi area of Ibadan. (NAN)

Source

Vanguard

Re: Divorce: Husband, wife accuse each other of infidelity

By: Ramjoe (M) |Time : January 04, 2019, 02:27:49 PM
If they both accused each other of infidelity. Either they're both dirty or lying, if not one of them is not faithful.

My real concern is the life of the child... Coming from a broken home in this dispensation is a huge ask. I hope it turns out well for the child.

Re: Divorce: Husband, wife accuse each other of infidelity

By: dayan (M) |Time : January 04, 2019, 09:40:02 PM
Quote
Anytime he returns from work, Ridwan leaves home to spend his time with a young girl near our house. In fact, he locked me out one day when I went to search for him in the night. That night, my child and I slept outside because he prevented us from entering the house. I am tired of Ridwan’s maltreatment and I no longer love him,” Suliyat said.

It is wrong to take punish a mother and a child simultaneously. Some men when overcome by jealous rage do this and it is plain wrong.

Re: Divorce: Husband, wife accuse each other of infidelity

By: dayan (M) |Time : January 04, 2019, 09:44:32 PM
Quote
The respondent did not deny the allegations leveled against him. Ridwan, a mechanic, however, argued that his wife was also a cheat who lay about. “My lord, I can’t count how many times I have established businesses for Suliyat and on many occasions, her shop had been burgled. It is only her shop that is usually burgled among the set of shops in the neighbourhood. My findings revealed that some of those men that sleep with her also come around to rob her.

Fair point, but it is more likely that she willingly uses the money (or items from the shop) to please her lovers.
I doubt strongly that men who sleep with her come to rob her; very unlikely. Men's brains don't work like that. If she was actually robbed, the robbers would not be her lovers in the first place. And if the "robbers" were not her lovers, and were only interested in her sexually rather than her shop items, they would rape her instead.
Criminals don't ask for anything; they take it!
So her story doesn't add up.

Re: Divorce: Husband, wife accuse each other of infidelity

By: alagbe003 (M) |Time : January 05, 2019, 07:55:56 AM
Divorce rate is on the high side in Nigeria, Children from this union are the one that suffers the most. The major reason crime rate has increased in Nigeria can be associated with increase in divorce rate, children from broken home hardly have a proper upbringing.

0 Members and 1 Guest are viewing this topic. Reply

web site traffic statistics