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"He Married Me A Virgin Yet He Impregnated Another Woman" -- Wife Tells Court...

By dayan (M)December 24, 2016, 04:49:59 AM
Tired of her marriage, a woman, Idowu Asogbon, has called on Oja’ba/Mapo Grade ‘C’ Customary Court, sitting at Mapo Hall, Ibadan, Oyo State, to grant her divorce because of her husband’s unfaithfulness and threats to her life.



She said: “He married me a virgin about eight years ago and our matrimony is blessed with two children. I wish for the dissolution of our marriage because he impregnated another woman, five months after I delivered my first born and also sent me out of the house when I was pregnant with the second child. All along, I’ve been responsible for the welfare of our children.

“My husband beats me to the point that he wounded me with a broken bottle and also stabbed me with a knife in the head. He monitors my movements. He cuts my hair. I want this court to separate us and request to have my children because he will not be able to take care of them. There is no more love between us. I’m fed up,” Idowu pleaded with the court

But her husband asked her, “Did I cut your hair?” Idowu responded sternly “yes.”

The husband, Olumide, said: “Although, I agreed with her on the divorce against me, but I want the court to know that I neither stabbed nor cut her hair. I took care of her after she fell down during one of our misunderstandings. That is all I can say.”

President of the court, Chief Ademola Odunade, granted the divorce on repayment of dowry. He ordered that the custody of the two children produced by the marriage be given to the plaintiff, Idowu. The defendant is expected to be paying N10, 000 monthly as feeding allowance for the two children until they grow up. He should also be responsible for their education and health services.

Source: National Helm


Re: "He Married Me A Virgin Yet He Impregnated Another Woman" -- Wife Tells Court...

By dayan (M)December 24, 2016, 05:00:08 AM
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She said: “He married me a virgin about eight years ago and our matrimony is blessed with two children. I wish for the dissolution of our marriage because he impregnated another woman, five months after I delivered my first born and also sent me out of the house when I was pregnant with the second child. All along, I’ve been responsible for the welfare of our children.

“My husband beats me to the point that he wounded me with a broken bottle and also stabbed me with a knife in the head. He monitors my movements. He cuts my hair. I want this court to separate us and request to have my children because he will not be able to take care of them. There is no more love between us. I’m fed up,” Idowu pleaded with the court
 

How can things turn so quickly for a couple like this?
This world is a deep place of mystery.
Most men would want to marry a virgin, but it takes a HIGHLY matured man to marry a virgin because the man has to teach her everything, and then be very very patient, while all the while praying constantly that she never gets an unreasonable expectation from the man.
If she ever for any reason develops an unreasonable expectation, and the man is either rigid, not creative, or not charismatic enough, that marry is doomed.
An immature or handicapped man cannot successfully marry a virgin.
The man in this story is not only immature but also irresponsible.
Double whammy!


Re: "He Married Me A Virgin Yet He Impregnated Another Woman" -- Wife Tells Court...

By dayan (M)December 24, 2016, 05:09:24 AM
So I guess the question should be "what would make a man who married a virgin seek sexual gratification outside his marital home so soon after marrying his virgin wife?"
Their problem started in earnest when he impregnated another woman.
Obviously he is not satisfied at home.
The beating is a sign of frustration rising from broken expectations and obvious incompatibility.


Re: "He Married Me A Virgin Yet He Impregnated Another Woman" -- Wife Tells Court...

By princepointDecember 24, 2016, 10:31:12 AM
infidelity crazy story sometimes  beat up a woman cut her hair and also monitor her movement

Divorce should not be an option but parties should consult a counselor

virginity 75% 0f Nigerian men don't  value virginity    ?


Re: "He Married Me A Virgin Yet He Impregnated Another Woman" -- Wife Tells Court...

By GideonDecember 24, 2016, 02:35:53 PM
The judgement at the court is the best... The wife take custody of the children and the man sending allowances to them.. but to the man,is it really worth it at the end to destroy a good institution created by God,and in which you entered it with your eyes open?... Some guys are not worth it...It seems he was forced to get married


Re: "He Married Me A Virgin Yet He Impregnated Another Woman" -- Wife Tells Court...

By Adenosine (M)December 24, 2016, 09:42:41 PM
That really showed that the man ungrateful to his wife, that is one of the disadvantage of being a virgin because they believed you are not exposed enough to know some certain things when it comes, since you haven't experience it before. Guys are not even looking for virgin again, they won't even worry about your pass sex life as long as you are not a virgin. The man didn't deserved the woman because am very sure he knew she was a virgin before she married her and now he has entered yet not satisfied. I think best thing is to free this woman from this man.


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